~Appeared in the Charleston Gazette, December 23, 2012~
The Meaning of
Christmas
Let us go now to
Bethlehem and see this thing that has taken place,
which the Lord has
made known to us. ~Luke 2:15
A man we
hired to do some work in our home said to me, “I hate Christmas! I’ll be glad
when it’s over.”
Stunned, I
couldn’t let the remark pass without a response.
“We must
remember the meaning of Christmas,” I said.
“Don’t
start that religious stuff with me,” he answered rather curtly,
I felt
insulted, embarrassed and hurt! I was
inclined to tell him to leave, or that I’d appreciate it if he’d show more
respect for me since he was in my home. But, although it had taken me many years, I
had finally learned to think before speaking. After all, if I became angry, wouldn’t that give
the impression that I wasn’t living my religious beliefs?
So, thankfully,
I managed to smile and remain calm. In
the end, he regretted his actions and apologized.
But after the
man left, I thought about his attitude and his statement: “I hate Christmas!” And
I felt sorry for him. If he really feels
that way, he’s missing so much.
How could
anyone possibly experience Christmas without at least a degree of joy in his
heart?
Without
appreciation for the lovely Christmas carols playing continuously?
Without
feeling like a child at the sight of colorful, sparkling decorations—brightly-lit
trees shining from neighborhood windows, wreaths on doors?
Without a
sense of love and charity?
Christmastime
is a joyous season of goodwill and generosity—a time when the giving spirit is
flowing freely. Everywhere, we see examples of people reaching out with
kindness and love. We see compassion in their thoughts, words, actions and
attitudes. We see expressions of generosity and thoughtfulness. Many are
praising and encouraging others, or praying for those in need and sharing their
own blessings.
Wherever
you go, people greet you with happy smiles and the words, “Merry Christmas,” or
“Happy Holidays.”
The
delightful aroma of spicy baked goods fills the air as mothers bake cookies,
fruit cakes and other delights for their families and for sharing with
neighbors and friends.
The ways in
which charitable deeds flow are endless. Those who express loving generosity,
not only bless others, but also themselves.
Long ago,
three wise men followed a star and were led to Bethlehem. There they found the
baby Jesus and were filled with joy. Reverently, they offered gifts of gold,
frankincense and myrrh.
Today, people
the world over exchange gifts on Christmas, but the greatest gift doesn’t come
wrapped in a package. It is the
unconditional love of God. This is the
gift that Jesus Christ lived and taught. Love is the gift that brings life to
both the giver and receiver.
As we
celebrate the birth of Jesus, we give thanks for His life, example and
teachings and we acknowledge our birthright as children of the Most High.
I pray that
everyone will open his or her heart to love Christmas and celebrate it by
humbly giving and gratefully receiving the peace and love of God.
And on this
day of rebirth and new beginnings, may we find in our hearts a willingness to
do our part in making Christmas not just one special day in the year but a way
of living life.
Merry
Christmas!
